Marriage is the foundation for the Christian family. Husband and wife and by God’s grace blessed with children. Whether you hope to marry one day or are already married it’s good to go to the Bible and learn about marriage.
- Genesis 2:24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
Marriage is mentioned already in creation. Whether you are already married or not, here are Bible verses to guide you to what the Bible says about marriage.
- 1 Corinthians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
There are many kinds of temptations in the world. To be married is to give our love and loyalty to our husband or wife.
- Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
In a Christian marriage the husband is to love his wife as Christ loved us. This is to love even when it’s not deserved, unconditionally.
- Colossians 3:18-19 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.
Love between husband and wife includes for the husband to be gentle and giving himself up for his wife, and for the wife to submit to and respect her husband.
- Exodus 20:14 You shall not commit adultery.
Loyalty and trust are fundamental in all relationships. In marriage that means to forsake all others and not have any other intimate relationships.
- Matthew 5:27-28 You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Jesus taught us that it’s not only the act of adultery that is breaking the commandment, but even lustful thoughts.
- Ephesians 4:32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Although this verse speaks of the love between all Christians, it also applies to husband and wife. Forgive each other and be kind.
The Hebrew word translated as “peace” is “shalom”. It means more than the opposite of conflict. It’s about being complete and safe. This is why we ultimately only can find peace in God. Without God we are not complete and not at peace.
- Psalm 34:14 Turn away from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it.
You have a choice in your life. When you are in a conflict, do you seek peace? Take the first step and reach out to anyone you are not at peace with and seek peace.
- Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.
There is blessing and happiness in being a peacemaker. As children of God we are called to seek peace.
- Romans 12:18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.
We know there are conflicts and troublemakers in the world. But the Bible tells us to do what we can to live in peace with everyone.
- Isaiah 55:12 For you shall go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and the hills before you shall break forth into singing, and all the trees of the field shall clap their hands.
When you walk with God in peace, everything is different. There may be conflict around you, but worldly conflict and troubles can’t overcome the peace of God.
- Romans 14:19 So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.
Actively work for peace, not just for your own sake, but also to build up others around you.
- 2 Thessalonians 3:16 Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times in every way. The Lord be with you all.
The Bible wishes for you, and for all to have peace. May God be with you, so that your life will be at peace and complete.
- Numbers 6:24-26 The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.
The priestly blessing tells us that in God’s presence there is peace. Seek God and you shall find him. God bless you.
The day is coming to an end. Before you go to sleep, take a moment to read the word of God. Pray. Lift up what you are thankful for, any worries, pray for God’s blessing as you go to sleep.
- Psalm 4:8 In peace I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety.
Leave the stress of the day and any worries in the hands of God. He will give you peace.
- Proverbs 3:24 If you lie down, you will not be afraid; when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet.
There can be a lot around us in our lives with our home, work, family, stress, worries and fear. Trust that God wants you to have a good sleep. We can face any challenge better if we are well rested.
- Psalm 23:2-3 He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.
Trust God to lead you to rest, peace, renewed strength and energy. God wants good for us.
- Matthew 6:34 Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
Commit your way to God. When we are led by him, we can let our worries go. Instead of being anxious about what may or may not happen tomorrow, pray to God that his will be done.
- Psalm 63:5-6 My soul will be satisfied as with fat and rich food, and my mouth will praise you with joyful lips, when I remember you upon my bed, and meditate on you in the watches of the night;
Before you sleep, it is good to take the time to read the Bible and to pray to God. It satisfies our soul.
- Exodus 33:14 And he said, “My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.”
God is with you. If you don’t know God’s presence, seek him with all your heart. Be at peace in the presence of God.
- Psalm 116:7 Return, O my soul, to your rest; for the LORD has dealt bountifully with you.
God is a generous God. May his peace, rest and love be with you in abundance.
When you wake up in the morning, start your day with a verse from the Bible. Before you get out of bed, take a moment to pray.
- Psalm 118:24 This is the day that the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Each day is a gift from God. Life is not without its problems and struggles, but take a moment to give thanks to God for his blessings.
- Lamentations 3:22-23 The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
God loves you. Be reminded as you wake up that God’s mercy is new every day. God is faithful.
- Psalm 143:8 Let me hear in the morning of your steadfast love, for in you I trust. Make me know the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul.
Take a moment at seek God’s will, ask for his presence to fill you as the new day begins. Ask God to lift off any burdens and give you peace.
- Proverbs 16:9 The heart of man plans his way, but the LORD establishes his steps.
We have our will, wishes and desires. Make it a habit to lift up your plans before God and ask for his guidance in everything you do the coming day.
- Matthew 6:11 Give us this day our daily bread
We trust God’s provision. He knows what we need. When we pray the Lord’s prayer, we ask for God to give us what we need.
- Psalm 90:14 Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love, that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.
Starting the day in the right way makes the whole day easier. Remembering God’s steadfast love for us is surely a wonderful reminder.
- Isaiah 33:2 O LORD, be gracious to us; we wait for you. Be our arm every morning, our salvation in the time of trouble.
Ask for God to protect you. We entrust our lives and our souls to God. It’s in him we have salvation.
In times of sadness, it’s important to turn to God and find comfort in His Word. Here are some attitudes to adopt:
- Pray: ask God to help us through this trial and to give us the strength and comfort we need. “Have no anxiety about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” – Philippians 4:6
- Read the Bible: look for verses that bring us comfort and hope, and meditate on their meaning. “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teach and admonish one another in all wisdom, and sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs with thankfulness in your hearts to God.” – Colossians 3:16
- Turn other Christians: share our sadness with our brothers and sisters in Christ and receive their support and prayers. “For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them.” – Matthew 18:20
- Remember that God is always present and will never abandon us. He is able to turn our sadness into joy and help us through every trial. “teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, to the close of the age.” – Matthew 28:20
- Show gratitude: despite sadness, remember God’s many blessings in our lives and give thanks. “give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:18
By adopting these attitudes, we can find comfort and hope in times of sorrow, knowing that God is with us and will sustain us in all circumstances.
Introduction
Have you ever wondered what’s the buzz about fasting? The Lenten season is here and fasting takes centre stage in conversations. It’s the talk of the town during these days of reflection and spiritual dedication. Lent provides a 40-day period for fasting and prayer (Sundays are excluded), in imitation of Jesus Christ’s fasting in the wilderness before he began his public ministry.
Fasting might sound like a complicated idea, but let’s break it down in simple terms and see how this ancient practice can be relevant and meaningful for you today.
Understanding Biblical Fasting
What exactly is fasting? Well, it’s not about giving up your favourite snacks or skipping meals for the sake of a diet. In the Bible, fasting is a spiritual discipline where people would voluntarily abstain from certain foods or activities for a specific period. It’s not just about going without; it’s about seeking a deeper connection with God through prayer and meditation.
Examples from the Bible
If you’re curious about how people in the Bible practiced fasting, let’s take a look at a couple of examples. Remember the story of Jesus spending 40 days and nights in the desert (Matthew 4 v 1-11)? That’s a form of fasting! Another example is found in the book of Daniel 10 v 2-3, where he chose to eat only vegetables and drink water for a set period, the Ninevah fast (Jonah 3 v 5-9) and Esther’s fast (Esther 4).
Benefits of Fasting
Why would anyone willingly give up food or certain activities? Well, there are a few reasons. Fasting allows you to:
- Draw Closer to God: By setting aside time for prayer and reflection, fasting helps strengthen your spiritual connection with God.
- Develop Self-Discipline: Fasting requires self-control and discipline. It’s a great way to practice saying ‘no’ to immediate desires for a greater purpose.
- Seek Guidance: In times of confusion or decision-making, fasting can be a way to seek God’s guidance and wisdom.
- Express Repentance: Fasting can also be a way to express sorrow for mistakes and seek forgiveness.
Now, how can you, incorporate fasting into your life in a practical way?
- Start Small: Instead of jumping into a lengthy fast, begin with a shorter period and gradually increase as you become more comfortable.
- Digital Detox: In a world where screens dominate our attention, a digital fast can be equally transformative. Dedicate a specific time each day or week to disconnect from technology and focus on prayer, meditation, or reading Scripture.
- Choose Wisely: Decide what you want to fast from – it could be a particular type of food, social media, or any activity that distracts you from having a quiet time with God.
- Set Goals: Clearly define your goals for fasting. Whether it’s seeking guidance, deepening your relationship with God, or developing self-discipline, having a purpose will make the experience more meaningful.
- Stay Connected: Engage in prayer and spend quality time meditating on the Word of God.
- Corporate Fasting: Engage in fasting as a community. Whether it’s a family, church group, or online community, coming together in a shared fast can enhance the experience and foster a sense of unity.
Conclusion
Fasting is not a one-size-fits-all practice. It’s a personal journey that allows you to grow spiritually, develop self-discipline, and seek God’s guidance. So, if you’re curious about building up your faith in a new way, consider giving fasting a try. It might just be the key to unlocking a deeper connection with God.
Hurt can leave a deep wound, leaving you with anger, resentment, and a desire for justice. While these emotions are understandable, clinging to them only poisons your soul and hinders your healing. Forgiveness offers a path forward, a way to release yourself from the burden of bitterness and embrace peace.
But how do you forgive someone who has deeply hurt you? The Bible offers wisdom and guidance on this difficult journey. Here are 5 verses to help you navigate the path of forgiveness:
- Matthew 6:14-15:
“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”
This verse highlights the link between your forgiveness of others and God’s forgiveness of you. Holding onto resentment hinders God’s grace in your life. Choosing to forgive, however difficult, opens you up to the blessings of God’s own forgiveness.
2. Ephesians 4:31-32:
“Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
This verse calls you to actively remove negativity and negativity from your heart. It encourages kindness, compassion, and a willingness to forgive just as God has forgiven you. This deliberate act of replacing bitterness with kindness sets you on the path to healing.
3. Colossians 3:13:
“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
This verse emphasizes patience and understanding. It reminds you that everyone makes mistakes and that forgiveness is a choice you make, not something you feel obligated to do. Remember God’s forgiveness towards you, and let it inspire you to extend the same grace to others.
4. Luke 6:37:
“Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven.”
This verse focuses on the reciprocal nature of forgiveness. By releasing others from their mistakes, you free yourself from the burden of judgment and open yourself to receiving forgiveness for your own shortcomings. Remember, forgiveness is not about condoning the hurt, but about choosing to let go and move forward.
5. 1 John 1:9:
“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”
This verse reminds you that forgiveness starts with acknowledging your own need for it. By confessing your own shortcomings and seeking God’s forgiveness, you open your heart to the power of forgiveness in your own life. This self-reflection allows you to practice the forgiveness you extend to others.
In conclusion, remember, forgiveness is a journey, not a destination. It takes time, patience, and a commitment to letting go. But the rewards are immeasurable. By following the guidance of these Bible verses, you can find the strength to forgive, release yourself from the grip of hurt, and experience the abundant peace and joy that comes with it.