Colossians 3

Marriage is the foundation for the Christian family. Husband and wife and by God’s grace blessed with children. Whether you hope to marry one day or are already married it’s good to go to the Bible and learn about marriage.

1. Genesis 2:24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Marriage is mentioned already in creation. Whether you are already married or not, here are Bible verses to guide you to what the Bible says about marriage.

2. 1 Corinthians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

There are many kinds of temptations in the world. To be married is to give our love and loyalty to our husband or wife.

3. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

In a Christian marriage the husband is to love his wife as Christ loved us. This is to love even when it’s not deserved, unconditionally.

4. Colossians 3:18-19 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.

Love between husband and wife includes for the husband to be gentle and giving himself up for his wife, and for the wife to submit to and respect her husband.

5. Exodus 20:14 You shall not commit adultery.

Loyalty and trust are fundamental in all relationships. In marriage that means to forsake all others and not have any other intimate relationships.

6. Matthew 5:27-28 You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Jesus taught us that it’s not only the act of adultery that is breaking the commandment, but even lustful thoughts.

7. Ephesians 4:32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Although this verse speaks of the love between all Christians, it also applies to husband and wife. Forgive each other and be kind.

In a world that often leaves us searching for belonging and questioning our identity, the Bible offers profound insights into who we are and where we truly belong. These seven Bible verses highlight the unshakable foundation of our identity in Christ and the sense of belonging we find in God’s family.

1. Ephesians 2:19 

“Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household.”

Through Christ, you are no longer outsiders. Instead, you are integrated into God’s family as full members.

2. 1 Peter 2:9 

“But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.”

You are God’s own people, set apart to reflect His light in the world. It’s a compelling reminder of our unique identity and purpose.

3. Romans 8:16

“The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.”

The familial connection between you and God not only affirms your identity but also assures of your inheritance and future glory with Christ.

4. Galatians 3:28 

There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

Regardless of your backgrounds or social status, you all belong to God’s family through faith in Jesus.

5. 1 John 3:1 

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.”

God has shown His love by calling you His children. You therefore belong to Him.

6. Colossians 3:3 

“For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.”

Your old identity is gone, and your new life is secure in Christ. This hidden life in God provides a stable and eternal sense of belonging and identity, rooted in Christ.

7. Jeremiah 1:5 

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

Your identity and purpose are known to God even before birth. It’s a powerful reminder that you belong to Him and are created with intention and love.

Unity is a fundamental principle deeply rooted in the Bible, emphasizing the strength, harmony, and spiritual growth that comes from being united in faith and purpose. Here are seven powerful Bible verses that highlight the importance of unity and the divine blessings that flow from it.

1. Psalm 133:1 

“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!”

Unity among God’s people is seen as something good and pleasing, reflecting God’s desire for His followers to live in peace and mutual support.

2. John 17:22

I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one.

Jesus emphasizes the importance of unity among His followers. He prays for believers to be united just as He is with the Father.

3. Ephesians 4:3

“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”

We are all part of one body with one hope, one Lord, one faith, and one God. We should therefore preserve this unity.

4. 1 Corinthians 1:10 

“I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought.”

God does not like divisions. Unity is essential for presenting a cohesive and powerful witness to the world.

5. Colossians 3:14 

“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

Love is identified as the ultimate virtue that holds everything together in perfect unity.

6. Romans 12:5

So in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.”

Unity in diversity means each one is important in their own way and we need each other in every way.

7. Philippians 2:2 

Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind.”

Unity brings joy and completeness. We are all encouraged to cultivate a peaceful and loving community.

When you are feeling anxious or worried, it’s a good idea to go to the Bible. God knows our fears and worries, and the Bible has many words to lift us up, giving hope and relieving us of anxiety.

1. Isaiah 41:13 For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, “Fear not, I am the one who helps you.”

You are not alone. God is here, He is with you. This is an important reminder because anxiety can be overwhelming. But God is here to help you.

2. John 14:1 Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me.

God became a man, Jesus Christ, and lived as one of us. He knows your situation. Jesus reminds you to turn to him in faith.

3. Psalm 34:4 I sought the LORD, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears.

When you seek God, the Bible tells us that God will answer. Seek God with all your heart and he will deliver you from your fears.

4. Psalm 94:19 When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul.

Anxiety can make your heart feel heavy and burdened. Read the Word of God and let God lift you up.

5. Proverbs 29:25 The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.

Our fears try to bring us down and trap us. God is our refuge, he is our safe harbour. Put your trust in God.

6. Colossians 3:15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.

When we let God into our hearts, there is peace. That peace isn’t just for ourselves, but for all who follow Jesus Christ. 

7. Romans 15:13 May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.

We need to keep our faith in God. It can be hard when we are anxious. But ask people around you to pray for you.

In times of sadness, it’s important to turn to God and find comfort in His Word. Here are some attitudes to adopt:

• Pray: ask God to help us through this trial and to give us the strength and comfort we need. “Have no anxiety about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” – Philippians 4:6
• Read the Bible: look for verses that bring us comfort and hope, and meditate on their meaning. “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teach and admonish one another in all wisdom, and sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs with thankfulness in your hearts to God.” – Colossians 3:16
• Turn other Christians: share our sadness with our brothers and sisters in Christ and receive their support and prayers. “For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them.” – Matthew 18:20
• Remember that God is always present and will never abandon us. He is able to turn our sadness into joy and help us through every trial.  “teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, to the close of the age.” – Matthew 28:20
• Show gratitude: despite sadness, remember God’s many blessings in our lives and give thanks. “give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:18

By adopting these attitudes, we can find comfort and hope in times of sorrow, knowing that God is with us and will sustain us in all circumstances.

Hurt can leave a deep wound, leaving you with anger, resentment, and a desire for justice. While these emotions are understandable, clinging to them only poisons your soul and hinders your healing. Forgiveness offers a path forward, a way to release yourself from the burden of bitterness and embrace peace.

But how do you forgive someone who has deeply hurt you? The Bible offers wisdom and guidance on this difficult journey. Here are 5 verses to help you navigate the path of forgiveness:

1. Matthew 6:14-15:

“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”

This verse highlights the link between your forgiveness of others and God’s forgiveness of you. Holding onto resentment hinders God’s grace in your life. Choosing to forgive, however difficult, opens you up to the blessings of God’s own forgiveness.

2. Ephesians 4:31-32:

“Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

This verse calls you to actively remove negativity and negativity from your heart. It encourages kindness, compassion, and a willingness to forgive just as God has forgiven you. This deliberate act of replacing bitterness with kindness sets you on the path to healing.

3. Colossians 3:13:

“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

This verse emphasizes patience and understanding. It reminds you that everyone makes mistakes and that forgiveness is a choice you make, not something you feel obligated to do. Remember God’s forgiveness towards you, and let it inspire you to extend the same grace to others.

4. Luke 6:37:

“Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven.”

This verse focuses on the reciprocal nature of forgiveness. By releasing others from their mistakes, you free yourself from the burden of judgment and open yourself to receiving forgiveness for your own shortcomings. Remember, forgiveness is not about condoning the hurt, but about choosing to let go and move forward.

5. 1 John 1:9:

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”

This verse reminds you that forgiveness starts with acknowledging your own need for it. By confessing your own shortcomings and seeking God’s forgiveness, you open your heart to the power of forgiveness in your own life. This self-reflection allows you to practice the forgiveness you extend to others.

In conclusion, remember, forgiveness is a journey, not a destination. It takes time, patience, and a commitment to letting go. But the rewards are immeasurable. By following the guidance of these Bible verses, you can find the strength to forgive, release yourself from the grip of hurt, and experience the abundant peace and joy that comes with it.